Marriage is quite paradoxical in that sometimes it feels as though I have been married to Pinch forever! And at times, I can hardly believe that it didn’t happen yesterday. I can still recall that morning when we rushed to the hall in Borivili, hung around for a while till the hairdresser sauntered in. Pranced around in the traditional red saree, sat through the makeup-n-hair sessions (was tough to put that hair into a passable bun), grinned through the pictures, walked around the fire with Pinch – was fun. Of course, I was intimidated by the photographer! Who isn’t? On that day, he alone has the power to make you feel good, silly, embarassed, you name it. So much so that at the end of the reception, I grabbed my thick-rimmed glasses and put them on. Just to get rid of the entire *bride effect*. Of course, I was all dressed up anyway! 2 years later, when I glance through anyone’s wedding pics or hear about the marriage plans, I wonder ‘MAN, I’D LOVE TO GET MARRIED AGAIN’!
Happy wedding anniversary to Pinch and me!!!
Lakshmi says:
Is one of my favourites. Captures the essence of the entire ritual. Flowers, family… can almost hear the Pandit reciting the chants!
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December 6, 2005 — 2:32 pm
sthira says:
Hey,
Wish you a very happy anniversary. I remember your post of last year on this day, how soon time flies!
By the way,I am curious to know why I see so many women here in the photo wearing sari with a seedha aanchal(the pallu coming from behind).
December 6, 2005 — 3:56 pm
ruchikapoor says:
If I remember right Pinch is Gujju. (Actually, I didn’t really remember but the gharchola gave it away!)
Great pic, Locks! Happy anniversary!!
December 6, 2005 — 5:23 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks..:-)
December 6, 2005 — 7:57 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks! Did I even post abt it last year??!! Hardly recall…
Pinch is a Gujarati and that way of wearing the saree (with the pallu coming from behind) is very common among Gujarati women.
December 6, 2005 — 7:57 pm
hemya says:
plus that design of the saree is very common in kutchi’s and gujju’s alike….most women in the family would wear that saree with just a change in the border:)
happy anniversary….cheers
December 7, 2005 — 7:25 am
Lakshmi says:
thanks!
December 7, 2005 — 2:56 pm
nithya says:
hey… thats a cute pic..
happy anniversary
btw do you have more pics with mom dad and geetu??
just curious to see how they looked during your wedding..
December 6, 2005 — 4:07 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thank you! Let me see if I have any pics of Mom-Dad-Geetu.
December 6, 2005 — 7:58 pm
notanangel78 says:
Happy Anniversary:))
Very nice picture:)
December 6, 2005 — 6:06 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thank you!!!
December 6, 2005 — 8:06 pm
gleefulfreak says:
beautiful! happy anniversary. π
December 6, 2005 — 6:44 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks..:-)
December 6, 2005 — 8:06 pm
warmpinkglow says:
That is a BEAUTIFUL picture!
Our third wedding anniversary was last Friday — December 2nd. I feel like my life has always been this way, with him, but also feel like it was only yesterday that we were newly married.
We had a small ceremony with only 25 of my family members present. I LONG for the full-blown Indian Hindu wedding. Rajesh says “Eh, we’re already married”, but I still feel like it’s something we need to do. Maybe for our fifth. Maybe never. I guess I just want some spiritual validation/significance to our union, in some sort of formal way. On the day of our actual wedding, he applied pottu on me, but that was the extent of it.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!! π
December 6, 2005 — 7:39 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Erica!
Maybe you can go to the nearest temple and ask the priest if he can perform any ceremony for you both on your wedding anniversary.
December 6, 2005 — 8:07 pm
goofy_duck2004 says:
Happy Anniversary – Belated!
December 7, 2005 — 5:30 am
Lakshmi says:
Thank you! Not belated, it is on the 7th.
December 7, 2005 — 2:56 pm
goofy_duck2004 says:
π
The belated anniversary wish was for ‘sugarandbrine
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December 7, 2005 — 3:03 pm
arunshanbhag says:
Aww! Such a cute pic! Perfect capture of a nice family ceremony!
Congratulations on your second! Wishing you decades and decades of fun-filled togetherness.
π
December 6, 2005 — 7:51 pm
Lakshmi says:
My fav pic too… thanks!
December 6, 2005 — 8:09 pm
Lakshmi says:
Re: scrimping on words
I thought you meant ‘you too’ implying that you and N also celebrated your wedding anniversary on the same day!
December 6, 2005 — 7:55 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Sampada.
Actually, you just have to grin and forget about it. No point feeling self-conscious because you have no option anyway!
December 6, 2005 — 8:05 pm
mrsgollum says:
wish you two a happy anniversary – many many more to follow as well…:)
December 6, 2005 — 8:19 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Navin.
December 7, 2005 — 2:57 pm
sayantan says:
Happy Anniversary π
December 6, 2005 — 10:31 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks!
December 7, 2005 — 2:57 pm
deelight says:
Happy Anniversary Pinch and Locks! Nice pic.
December 7, 2005 — 12:19 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks.. is my fav pic too!
December 7, 2005 — 2:57 pm
radhika74 says:
Happy anniversary. nice pic,but i want a close up now!
December 7, 2005 — 12:26 am
Lakshmi says:
Too Net-shy to put up a clean close-up…:-)
Thanks, Radhika!
December 7, 2005 — 2:58 pm
rileen says:
Many happy returns of the day, and may the occasion return many times π
Nice pic!
December 7, 2005 — 12:40 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Rileen…:-)
December 7, 2005 — 2:58 pm
beerbal says:
Happy anniversary!
(And a nice picture.)
December 7, 2005 — 12:45 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks. The pic is one of my favourites too. It conveys the entire marriage ritual in one moment, I feel.
December 7, 2005 — 2:59 pm
jwadia says:
Nice Snap π ….. Still to go there do that
December 7, 2005 — 2:31 am
Lakshmi says:
Still to go there do that
Marriage, you mean? I am sure it’s not for lack of interested people…:-)
December 7, 2005 — 2:59 pm
jwadia says:
Let say i am cursed with “People i like don’t like me and People who like me i don’t like ” :)) and the saga continues
December 8, 2005 — 1:26 am
jayasankarvs says:
Happy wedding anniversary to Pinch and you!
December 7, 2005 — 2:51 am
Lakshmi says:
Thank you!
December 7, 2005 — 3:00 pm
rparvaaz says:
Happy Anniversary. π
December 7, 2005 — 4:27 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Ritu!
December 7, 2005 — 3:00 pm
goofy_duck2004 says:
Wishing you both a Very happy Anniversary Lakshmi. Also wishing you life time of togetherness, happiness and wonderful memories.
You are right about the photographer and being at his mercy. What is the most bugging thing is when they ask you to stand in some pose or the other. It looks so artificial.
Nice picture. Like someone else mentioned, even i wish i could have seen a close up of this one.
December 7, 2005 — 5:32 am
Lakshmi says:
π Pinch put up such a fuss that they made him pose in some ‘not-so-embarassing’ ways. To me, they were still awful! So imagine what they’d have got him to do had he agreed…:-)
December 7, 2005 — 3:01 pm
on9thheaven says:
belated happy anniversary and a really cute post π thanks for sharing the pic. i didn’t know that pinch was gujju.
hope you had a wonderful day and many many years of happiness ahead of you π
December 7, 2005 — 9:30 am
Lakshmi says:
Yeah, Pinch is Gujju.
Thanks for the wishes… it’s weird, I still dunno your name!
December 7, 2005 — 3:02 pm
iswari says:
Happy (Belated) Anniversary! =)
(And I know what you mean about it seeming like forever ago and just yesterday!)
December 7, 2005 — 10:27 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks!!!
December 7, 2005 — 3:02 pm
appughar says:
Really nice pic… capture the essence of the moment very well..
December 7, 2005 — 8:44 pm
Lakshmi says:
Yes, my sentiments too.
December 8, 2005 — 1:52 pm
Lakshmi says:
Yes, my sentiments too.
December 8, 2005 — 1:52 pm
fugney says:
Happy anniversary:)
December 8, 2005 — 8:33 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Phani.
December 8, 2005 — 1:52 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Phani.
December 8, 2005 — 1:52 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks!
December 8, 2005 — 1:52 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks!
December 8, 2005 — 1:52 pm
kookygoblin says:
Hey! Belated happy anniv!!! no access to comp for last 6 days :((
I missed this part during the wedding π
December 8, 2005 — 9:14 pm
Lakshmi says:
π
But you made it and that’s what matters!
Thanks.
December 9, 2005 — 1:16 pm
Lakshmi says:
π
But you made it and that’s what matters!
Thanks.
December 9, 2005 — 1:16 pm
kookygoblin says:
Hey! Belated happy anniv!!! no access to comp for last 6 days :((
I missed this part during the wedding π
December 8, 2005 — 9:14 pm