61.39% of the population in Atlanta is Afro-American. An old joke goes, ‘The white man acts like the black man till the cops come along.’. The Afro-Americans are one helluva cool community, as I’ve observed over the last so many months. They have such a distinctive style of their own. Absolutely no apologies for being *black*, in fact they take complete pride in it and can you ever imagine a product like Fair & Lovely fairness cream finding a market among the Afro-Americans? No way!
Observe a group of Afro-American girls/guys and you’ll notice their catch phrases (‘I am a do it like this’, ‘doowutchalike’, ‘hey sistah’, ‘My bad’, ‘Aw-wite’), their animated expressions, their *style* in expression? Ever seen the way two guys meet? They pump their individual fists against each other and draw the other closer by his shoulder. Not for them any of the stupid rules which limit expression as *gay* and *straight*.
They have such an inherent sense of rhythm in their system that it’s unbelievable. Watch an old Afro-American woman who finds it tough to carry her weight around and then watch the way she dances. Natural, easy and smoooooth. They seem to have a different groove in their bodies; it’s unmistakable. They walk the walk, talk the talk, so unabashedly natural. None of the small smiles or polite comments, instead wide face-splitting grins and hearty laughs, that’s such a signature of this community. Most of them have such an amazing sense of humour. Not dark or dry or self-effacing… more of the *kewl* kind, I really have no word for it. Slow and easy is how it goes. Talk about hip-hop music and the kind of popularity it enjoys world over. Seriously, it’s one of the most popular music and dance forms in this decade. Eddie Murphy, Will Smith, Samuel L Jackson, Morgan Freeman, Denzil Washington… they are way too cool.
sthira says:
In Britain, things are quite different with ethnic minority groups and it is very sad that sometimes the -isms have reasons for justification.
October 13, 2004 — 1:18 pm
Lakshmi says:
Things are not vastly different in USA either, arre they?
October 14, 2004 — 6:49 am
splitpeasoup says:
Yes, they have a very distinctive easy, relaxed style.
October 13, 2004 — 3:39 pm
savyasachi says:
can you ever imagine a product like Fair & Lovely fairness cream finding a market among the Afro-Americans? No way!
– This is one of the things I like about African-Americans – they take pride in whatever they are.
October 13, 2004 — 5:27 pm
Lakshmi says:
Exactly. Like in describing themselves, they will use the word *black*. Not *Afro-American* which is far more easier on the ears, I guess. Recalling a dialogue from Jerry Maguire where Regina King is giving a pep talk to her hubby, Cuba Gooding Jr. But of course, films give a not-so-truthful version of reality… But that’s another discussion!
October 14, 2004 — 6:55 am
fugney says:
Regina King is giving a pep talk to her hubby, Cuba Gooding Jr
“…you are a black beautiful man..” or something to that effect right? I love that movie… also saw this one called “The Brothers”. Loved it too. Made me want to one of the protaganists.
October 14, 2004 — 7:05 am
Lakshmi says:
Right. I haven’t seen ‘The Brothers’. What’s it about?
October 14, 2004 — 7:14 am
fugney says:
It’s about this bunch of four well-educated, hard-working, truly black chaps and their lives… truly left me “filled”, if you know what I mean…
October 14, 2004 — 7:27 am
savyasachi says:
Didn’t read all of your post – Morgan Freeman is my most favouritest actor ever!! He is the kind of man who can carry a film on his shoulders. As can Denzel Washington. Loved ‘Man on Fire’ – Dakota Fanning is his only match in acting….. 🙂
October 13, 2004 — 8:42 pm
radhika74 says:
i like this post..and for good measure lakshmi..it is well-written..UNDERSTAND?:P..so please no “i am not writing as well as i want to ” nonsense,ok??:)
October 14, 2004 — 1:13 am
Lakshmi says:
THANKS!!!!
I did have a slight grouse that my writing didn’t do justice to what I feel about these folks….:-)
October 14, 2004 — 6:55 am
roopa1978 says:
We have a lot to learn from them, especially because it isn’t common to see people who’re as comfortable with themselves. When you’re proud of yourself, you stop putting on other apparently false personas, I guess:)
October 14, 2004 — 1:15 am
vasanth says:
i totally agree with Roopa. wherever i have been to the blacks have been the most warm people and there is absolutely no pretence. i have begun to realise that they are naturally warm to others!
i am somehow given a different picture about their lawlessness esp in NY.
My Bad, eh laksh? Thats one phrase i simply love!!
October 14, 2004 — 1:53 am
Lakshmi says:
Well, the *lawlessness* bit happens in NY, GA.. many places. That apart, they’re a cool people.
October 14, 2004 — 6:56 am
deelight says:
I think they are an exceedingly talented lot. You’re right about the way their performing arts calibre. The way they dance…No other community has that effortless grace. Even their singing…and the black community has a lot to be proud of. Btw, apparently they had done some research for FAIR AND LOVELY with the black community (not too sure which part of the world) and the product was dismissed immediately!
October 14, 2004 — 4:01 am
Lakshmi says:
You bet! And they have such amazing voices. Both Afro-American men and women seem to have this throaty and deep quality to their voices. It’s fundoo!
October 14, 2004 — 6:57 am
Lakshmi says:
I recall reading that post, DD. I am sure Afro-American trends dictate a LOT of everything that is popular, clothes included. Check out how hip-hop has taken over the world!
October 14, 2004 — 6:52 am
fugney says:
It took me some time to register “Yo! Mama”… I was still stuck on the mumbaiyya version of “mama” …. so a bit confused.
October 14, 2004 — 7:07 am
Lakshmi says:
Actually, it’s just another term, Phani…:-)
October 14, 2004 — 7:14 am
fugney says:
I know… what I meant that I didn’t go back to the “brotha” meaning immediately. I am more ignorant about “my bad”.
October 14, 2004 — 7:25 am
Lakshmi says:
I think it is an apology.
October 14, 2004 — 7:26 am
fugney says:
Ooo.. okie.
October 14, 2004 — 7:30 am
fugney says:
Is it true that Indians are clubbed together with blacks in the US… I think Indian culture is more mainstream in the UK..
October 14, 2004 — 7:09 am
Lakshmi says:
I don’t think so; Afro-Americans are a much larger minority.
October 14, 2004 — 7:15 am
shri says:
*kewl* post, Locks! 😉 😀
I agree with what everybody has said here. Afro-Americans take pride in the way they are. We don’t.
BTW, going slightly OT, the other day, I read this ‘letter to the editor’ in TOI in which an Aussie said, that he was saddened that the Indians never talk good about their own country, that they can’t see beyond the flith and the poverty. He felt that India was so much more than that and it had so much to offer.
I tend to agree with him.
October 14, 2004 — 7:41 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Shri… About what the Aussie said, it’s a somewhat tough call to take. In any case, a fair measure of national pride won’t hurt.
October 14, 2004 — 7:48 am
sekhar says:
I somehow feel that their actions, instead of coming from within, is pretentious and can be described as ‘herd mentality’. Just my view on the topic:-)
October 15, 2004 — 8:40 am