20th July, 1998:
A couple met on a dirty beach in Bombay. He was tall, she was small (well, not so small). He was fair, she was dusky. They came from different places, their parents didn’t know each other, they didn’t even celebrate the same festivals.
The books, the coffee, and the music convinced them otherwise. Steinbeck and Led Zeppelin united them. They felt the same rush of emotion on the last page of ‘Grapes of Wrath.’ Shakti made their hearts sing in unison, and a few monsoon treks in the Sahyadris had them exhilarated. He made her laugh like no one ever did, she made him cry (he didn’t do that too often). They were convinced: they were meant to be together, come IIMs, USA or whatever.
On that scorching hot day, they made up their mind, ‘Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.’ After they exchanged the ‘It’s you!’ line, so refreshingly and vehemently different from ‘I love you!,’ they walked, not hand-in-hand (too shy to do that yet!) to their favorite Indian-Chinese joint and celebrated the day with greasy Schezwan fried rice and vinegared baby onions. The grass was not particularly greener; no angels sang out of anywhere; traffic was as usual.
She wondered: Isn’t this supposed to be magical? Where is the moment?
I am still wondering…. the magic is not in the grass or the serenading angels. It is in the realization that some things grow lovelier with time, that change is ever-present and that if you find someone with whom you can *dance*, no matter how much space and time intervene, you will *dance*.
My most romantic piece till date… Dedicated to my totally undeserved blessing, Pinch.
arunshanbhag says:
very, very cute!
enjoy the ‘dance’
for as long as the stars shine!
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i hate photoshop! why can’t we see a regular pic. or do you want me to come down there! *makes scary eyes*
July 19, 2005 — 8:28 pm
rileen says:
She was dusky …. that was in the days before photoshop :-p
July 20, 2005 — 4:54 am
Lakshmi says:
Oh, the name Pinch has a history… Imagine the worst!
Kidding…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 6:04 am
rileen says:
That’s easy – i do have the worst imagination :-p
July 20, 2005 — 6:08 am
arunshanbhag says:
Ouch!
July 20, 2005 — 6:42 am
Lakshmi says:
I should say this in his defence though; he was wrongly branded. The culprit was someone else…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 8:07 am
Lakshmi says:
🙂
Thanks!
I guess I am trying to let go of my reservations about putting our pics at a post as public as this one! Hey, this is pretty much how we look…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 6:03 am
arunshanbhag says:
jokes aside, beautifully written and heartfelt (even more so on a second and third reading!)
July 20, 2005 — 6:43 am
Lakshmi says:
Same here! Somedays, I am amazed at how the writing flows…it is magical.
July 20, 2005 — 8:08 am
suraj says:
For its sheer truthfulness and simplicity, to me, this is the most wonderfully written piece of romance ever!
Carry on dancing! 🙂
July 19, 2005 — 9:36 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks…:-)
In a brief moment, the inspiration came and I jumped at the opportnity and penned it.
July 20, 2005 — 6:04 am
jayasankarvs says:
Nice.
July 19, 2005 — 10:59 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks. Too soppy, I thought initially. Now it looks okay.
July 20, 2005 — 6:05 am
rileen says:
Keep on dancing 🙂
July 20, 2005 — 1:50 am
Lakshmi says:
Definitely…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 6:05 am
hithaz says:
so sweet
Really romantic 🙂
“The grass was not particularly greener, no angels sang out of anywhere, traffic was as usual. She wondered: isn’t this supposed to be magical? Where is the moment?”
Even i would wonder why there is never a sign when u know u with the one. It just feels so right like u have know each other along and were just waiting to meet. Nothing special happens to recognise the moment. Just being incurably romantic i guess 🙂 Like one would expect the rainbow across the sky and birds singing and flowers bloomin etc
you and pinch continue to dance togther for the rest of forever 🙂
July 20, 2005 — 2:39 am
Lakshmi says:
Re: so sweet
Thank you!
July 20, 2005 — 6:05 am
deelight says:
Perfect Pic!
I love this piece…
July 20, 2005 — 2:59 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Dee. Initially I thought it might come across as incredibly soppy but after repeated readings, it feels nice.
July 20, 2005 — 6:06 am
deelight says:
It’s far from soppy. It’s straight from the heart and said so simply that it really touches the reader too. Pinch must approve!
July 20, 2005 — 10:41 pm
Lakshmi says:
He did! He was the first person who read this…:-)
July 22, 2005 — 2:35 pm
radhika74 says:
loved this entry, lakshmi…incredibly romantic!
July 20, 2005 — 5:04 am
Lakshmi says:
Yeah, once in a rare while, the romantic makes an appearance.
Thanks..:-)
July 20, 2005 — 6:07 am
on9thheaven says:
awwwwwwwwww… such a cute post ! thanks for sharing your pic… wishing you many more dances and many more years of togetherness. *hugs*
July 20, 2005 — 7:03 am
Lakshmi says:
Wish you the same…
July 20, 2005 — 8:08 am
surendra says:
Lovely and beautifully penned.
Keep dancing and enjoy every moment of life.
July 20, 2005 — 7:31 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 8:09 am
lalunadiosa says:
Aaaaaaw….cho chweet…..
Nice pic….naya hain???
And there is nothing “undeserved” about your “blessing”, k??
July 20, 2005 — 8:01 am
Lakshmi says:
Pic from Biltmore. I was fiddling around with Photoshop and this emerged.
July 20, 2005 — 8:09 am
fugney says:
Hey cool… congrats:)
July 20, 2005 — 8:31 am
ceres says:
congrats!
the magic of togetherness, in everyday things 🙂
beautiful post. thank you for sharing the magic 🙂
July 20, 2005 — 8:39 am
Lakshmi says:
Re: congrats!
My pleasure…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 12:04 pm
Lakshmi says:
🙂
Thanks. Can’t believe that it has been 7 years now!
July 20, 2005 — 12:04 pm
aapka_apnaa says:
Good one!
Locks,
this was cool and beautiful
July 20, 2005 — 9:38 am
Lakshmi says:
Re: Good one!
Thanks!
July 20, 2005 — 12:04 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thank you…:-)
July 20, 2005 — 12:05 pm
tomlinsonian says:
hey, nice one…
how come you’ve never succumbed to the allure of Steinbeck’s land?? Or have you, before I knew you??
I’m about an hour from Salinas and the Cannery Row…..if you’re down here visiting, well..perhaps…..
July 20, 2005 — 6:57 pm
Lakshmi says:
Re: hey, nice one…
You mean visit CA?
Should do that sometime this year…No plans yet.
July 22, 2005 — 2:36 pm
Anonymous says:
nice piece .. well articulated
liked a brief history of your time since I don’t know much about how you guys got together. very evocative imagery.
oh .. and congrats you both.
-sekhar
July 21, 2005 — 3:53 am
Lakshmi says:
Re: nice piece .. well articulated
Thanks, Sekhar.
July 22, 2005 — 2:36 pm
shri says:
Lovely post and nice pic! 🙂
Here’s wishing you many more years of togetherness! 🙂
*hugs*
July 21, 2005 — 8:06 am
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Shri… After a lot of *unsuccessful attempts* (read post a pic, delete a pic, post it, delete it….), I finally put up something!
July 22, 2005 — 2:37 pm
nithya says:
beautiful piece of writeup there..
can almost picture the whole sequence taking place :-))
And about Shakti..they are gods gift to music…
they transport you to a different world.
July 21, 2005 — 2:10 pm
Lakshmi says:
🙂
You are so right about Shakti. They performed in Gateway of India this year, I heard…:-(
July 22, 2005 — 2:37 pm
anindita says:
Wishing you a lifetime of togetherness!
You look so happy!
(Well.. whatever little I can see in that image looks happy!)
:o)
A
July 21, 2005 — 8:52 pm
Lakshmi says:
Arre, the image is better-looking than the real person, in my opinion!
Thanks..:-)
July 22, 2005 — 2:38 pm
jwadia says:
Love shines right tru 🙂 All the best
July 24, 2005 — 2:49 am
Lakshmi says:
Thank you, thank you!
August 1, 2005 — 2:53 pm
iswari says:
Beautiful! =)
You’d said that he celebrates different festivals? What’s his background? Just curious…
August 3, 2006 — 11:35 pm
Lakshmi says:
He is from Gujarat and I am from Kerala. Actually, our respective parents are… both of us were born and raised in Bombay. So we celebrate different festivals!
August 4, 2006 — 12:22 am
iswari says:
Interesting! I don’t know too much about regional festivals. I’ve only heard of Onam in Kerala…
August 4, 2006 — 5:02 pm
Nathan says:
Wow – this post was 8 years old….and it is still refreshingly nice 🙂
July 19, 2013 — 12:39 pm
Lakshmi says:
Thanks, Nathan… 🙂
August 12, 2013 — 2:06 pm