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A Small Miracle (Really?)

Spelt Cardamom Biscuit

Spelt Cardamom Biscuit + Chai

Almost every friend of mine knows about the deep and abiding love I have for my cup of chai. I even wrote a post about Indian monsoon and chai, complete with a step-wise recipe, pictures, etc.

I like chai the way I make it. So, I am not an addict because it needs to be made very specifically, else I can pass on it. I like my cup of chai made with cow’s milk, two tiny spoons worth of turbinado sugar, grated fresh ginger (organic, Peruvian), fresh mint, tea masala. Not meaning to sound like a snob at all, but a little care and fancy ingredients go a long way when it comes to brewing the perfect sweet, spicy and warm cuppa. Ahh, I am a bad “tea snob” because I didn’t even mention the brand of tea I use. It is Wagh Bakri (translated as “Lion Goat”). Wonder what the logic behind the name is. You can find Wagh Bakri tea in Indian homes and grocery stores.

I loved, loved, loved my evening cup of chai so darned much that I’d morph into an impatient driver each evening as I drove home from work. I’d avoid making a stop anywhere, for anything. The only one thing in my mind was chai. It wasn’t as desperate as I am making it out to be, but I am somewhat close. Not lying at all.

You see, it wasn’t about the chai entirely. It was about the warm, spicy and sweet interplay of flavors. It was about my favorite books lying around the breakfast table that accompanied my quiet time. It was about looking out the window at our wild and lovely backyard, savoring the sunlight streaming in, drinking in my moment of zen (and also the moment I inwardly thanked our childless state).

Lately, I had been wondering if dairy consumption was linked with arthritis and other joint issues. There is published research that supports this viewpoint. I suffer from “creaky” joints, and I feared if they were a precursor to some sort of arthritis. I loved my chai so much; I could give up all dairy if I could stick to that one cup a day. But my doctor suggested that I do a little experiment to verify the facts: Stay off dairy for three months.

So I steeled myself to remove dairy from my life. Cue “mournful expression.”

Well, I am here to tell you that it has been very painless thus far. I have begun making chai with coconut milk, and it works. For me, it does. I haven’t been missing my kind of chai at all. It’s been about ten days, and I think this experiment is going swimmingly well.

What does this mean? Well, if I have the opportunity to partake of a stellar cup of chai (Mumbai Masala, Global Mall does it my style), I will take advantage of it. As for desserts, I am going to play it by ear. Desserts don’t feature often in my life, and if/when a particularly good one comes along, I might indulge myself.

For me, the biggest miracle (my husband doesn’t think it’s anything big) is freeing myself, or realizing that I was always free, of my love (bondage) for chai.

I am free. Perhaps, I always was.

Merits of a Warm Shower

Meditation

Meditation

Treat yourself to a warm shower, then find a sturdy, comfortable couch, prop yourself well, meditate.

Phew. The world is a lot more palatable and manageable and tolerable, even enjoyable.

Try it sometime. 🙂

Easing into Writing

ComfortNow that I have resolved to visit this space more often and write trivial, somewhat meaningless posts (and not the “deep” and “insightful” ones only), it is time to get started. Because this is really the only way writing can flow. When it feels unencumbered by the weight of the message it’s supposed to deliver. (Isn’t that a superb expression? I like!).

Thanks to Mary Anne Mohanraj for her bloooooooog (supposed to convey the fact that hers is one of the longest running blogs ever on the Internet). I am very inspired.

Spring is here. I am all “itchy,” wondering where all this is leading. Fortunately, I have always had experts and wise people guiding me. Waiting for one such person’s perspective to shine its light on me… Possibly this week.

It is nice to have access to reservoirs and reservoirs of energy. I am a responsible custodian of that energy too. I don’t squander it or burn it away. So it keeps growing and glowing and igniting and lighting. And this writing is part of it! Just need to remind myself that it is showing me the path forward. Stop being impatient and itchy, will you?

On Writing

Endlessly Still and Dynamic

Endlessly Still and Dynamic

I don’t yet consider myself a “writer,” because it seems like a calling more than something you do on the side, as a hobby or interest or whatever. Words come to me easy on most days, and I grab at them eagerly. Does that make me a writer? Hmmm.

P ends up complimenting many of the emails I send out (the ones he is copied on), and I jokingly wonder – can someone pay me for that, writing good emails? Ahh, I wonder.

Recently chanced upon the website and writing of Mary Anne Mohanraj. Now she is a writer. She writes A LOT. She is deeply, deeply invested in literature, the art and craft and teaching of writing, various types of fiction, etc. I got her first book titled Bodies in Motion, and have begun to make my way through it. I like her style. It is evocative, picturesque and sensual without any pretentiousness or “trying-too-hard” kind of thing.

Reading through her blog made me remember the time I wrote for simple fun. Not really intending to make a point or share an insight… but simply give form to my daily life and thoughts through words. I think I need to start doing it again. For one, it will ease the pressure of writing something “deep.” HA.